you know the past couple

Although he's affair with a former boyfriend has ended, it would not hurt if you find out the 'story'. This could be your reference in a relationship with him.

Surely not to stir up old wounds, but more on that you and he does not repeat the same mistakes. To that end, know the track record of amorous men that was launched from the following Yourtango.

1. Devotees monogamy
Men of this type are eager to be loved sincerely. No fear of commitment. But be careful, if he's too hasty take seriously, it could be because only the fear of being alone. Not because he is sure to make you become his friend.

2. Ever cheated on
Although he had an affair, not necessarily he will do it again on you. Precisely when he told of the affair he had done, he could be very sorry.

Find out just the main reason why he was having an affair. Discussion of this can actually make you more familiar with his personality.

3. Victims of infidelity
Men who had been a victim of infidelity tends to be hard to believe with their partner. He also will be a little trauma in relationships. It took a rather long process, so that he can trust you.

4. Playboy
Man playboy is very tempting and hard to resist. If you already know how he simply changing partners, and still want to be her lover, a 'must' accept the risk. Even if the end bitter, at least you had fun with it.

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In order Mesra Without False Perceptions

It's no secret that men and women have different ways of communicating. But that does not mean there is no way to make the 'Mars' and 'Venus' get along when communicating.

"There is hope as long as you're willing to adjust your filter that is part of your brain that processes what he says," said Dr.. B. Janet Hibbs, a psychologist, couples therapist and author of Try To See It My Way, as quoted from Shine.

Look at the following communication problems, which is common in a relationship:

1. In a quarrel
When arguing, perhaps you've heard him say an apology is not sudden and as such is not sincerely from the heart, "I'm sorry you feel that way." What's your dipikiran?

You do not even listen to the apology as a sincere thing to say, but as a justification that the problems and fights that happened was your fault. You may even assume that your partner may be tired of you. In fact, the intent of his words is that the fight to an end and not extended to other problems.

In a fight, women like to confuse the issue, while men have an instinct to resist, especially if he does not understand why you are angry.

2. In a complaint
You often complain about your work on your partner. However, sometimes you often get a dismissive response from him. Is this true?

In fact, men tend to see themselves as problem solvers. So, what he says is probably Develop a solution short of trying he gave you.

For example, you feel the work you do not balance with the price paid. Then, your spouse just to say simple things like, "If you feel it's unfair, ask for a raise."

However, the sound in your ears is, "Your problem is simple, get on with it." You do not feel that your partner is saying is a solution, just as a matter of showing the nature acuhnya. In fact, he has helped you find a solution, although only a simple solution.

3. In a conversation
Women tend to tell things in a convoluted manner. All that relates to say, but essentially very simple. Meanwhile, men do not process information a long with too broad a picture.

Therefore, he often looks bored with a convoluted story. However, you catch the reaction as a marker of a story you do not attract attention. Try to condense a story on important points, you will get attention from him.

4. In a problem-solving
The 'Mars' is born by nature indifferent to trivial things, while the 'Venus' requires a belief that the trivial will not interfere with their relationship. Too much thinking, worrying about the little things make the problem much worse or even create new problems.

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Type Idaman Men Women

A man who can understand the desire is the type of companion coveted many women. A study found that men who are sensitive to ensure mental health and provide a better sex life for women.

According to one study, men who are good at communicating, can listen well and understand women better able to give sexual pleasure to her partner.

The first study conducted in the United States found a strong relationship between mental well-being and sexual pleasure. It looks at three quality of life is measured by how happy the individual that is self-esteem, autonomy, and empathy.

It is obtained from the comparison of three measures of sexual satisfaction that is the regularity of orgasm, as well as giving and receiving oral sex.

The team of researchers from the Johns Hopkins Bloomberg School of Public Health found that sexual pleasure in women occurs consistently associated with the empathy of the couple.

They found that when men are responsive and caring, it creates a feedback loop that enhances sexual pleasure in women.

"The development of this research is important for young women to enhance their sexual arousal, since many women have difficulty enjoying sex," said Adena Galinsky, lead investigator, was quoted by the Daily Mail.

His team found that men are more easy to enjoy sex, recorded 9
of 10 men have an orgasm every sex.
Meanwhile, only 47 percent of women who can experience orgasm.

The study also found that men enjoy giving oral sex more than women. "The fact is the majority of men want to do an activity that can give pleasure to their partner," he added.

To obtain this result, the research team has examined the 3237 respondents aged 18 to 26 years.

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