The experience of a broken heart can make a person more carefully choose life companion. I was so afraid to repeat the bitter experience, some people grow up to be a 'voter'. Prefer to spend time alone than couples who did not complete in his eyes.
If you fall like that, maybe it's good to dream. Dreams are part of what we expect to happen in life. Dreams are very important to motivate yourself in all aspects of life, including romance.
You may often confide in your blog or diary while quoting the beautiful words or quote celebrities, representing scenes in your life. Then, making a beautiful collage. Sometimes the way it works well to motivate you.
However, your intent is to develop a clear purpose in your life. Intention is to support you expend energy to achieve your dreams. Therefore, you should fully understand what the purpose of your life.
There are several steps that you can set a clear goal of what you want in life has to offer Zavaro Lynn, author of the book The Game of You, as reported from Shine.
1. Allow yourself to dream about what you really want. Then, visualize in your mind's eye. Focus on yourself with your eyes closed 5 to 10 minutes, then felt a deep peace of the shadow relationship of your dreams.
2. Write down what you want today. As if it happened, or is already happening. This is the strongest way to determine what movement will you take to realize your wishes.
3. In the first line of a piece of paper write the word 'I', then complete the writing type of person you want with you at this time in detail. Be active and clear with your description.
Example: I enjoyed a love affair with a man who is kind, gentle, and loving. Or, I love spending time with a guy who likes to have fun, and also likes to cook
together at home.
4. Continue the sentence until you feel everything you want in a relationship you have written. Do your best on the core issues. Let it flow but not too
choose. Remember that you want to find a true partner, not a conceptual idea that may not exist.
5. Affirm the positive. Make sure every sentence you uttered a positive tone. Hold yourself to use negative descriptions like the word 'no'. As we explain in the negative, unconsciously we have allowed negative thoughts permeate the soul, and this will berdampk at the time you make a decision.
Example: "I do not want to fight with people I love." You can replace it with the phrase, "I communicate with my loved ones with maturity, openness, and pleasure."
6. Know what you can not tolerate. Use past experience to explain what you do not want to face in subsequent relationships.
For example, if you do not want to have a relationship with a man away from you or the guy who already have children, enter the scene to something that you can not tolerate. Always
using a positive point of view as someone who was in the same area, or someone who is still single.
7. Realize your worth. Know what the value of life's most important to you? Make sure they are included in your list, and set it as a value must also be trusted man
your dream. A successful relationship must be in agreement or at least respect the value of each.
8. Check your list. Recheck your writing to see if you forget something important to you. Make sure the paper is a picture of a bigger dream than the trapped
in details that are too obvious.
For example, if you make posts like, "He must be income more than Rp 1 billion per year," should use the phrase, "He can make my life and family in good circumstances."
9. Read your writing every day with a loud voice for a week to incorporate them into your subconscious. Place the text in an easily visible place so you
easy to remember what is in it.
10. Always open to welcome your new relationship to get surprises and not exactly the same as what you write. However, if you meet someone not in accordance with
values that you want, do not dare to compromise.
If you fall like that, maybe it's good to dream. Dreams are part of what we expect to happen in life. Dreams are very important to motivate yourself in all aspects of life, including romance.
You may often confide in your blog or diary while quoting the beautiful words or quote celebrities, representing scenes in your life. Then, making a beautiful collage. Sometimes the way it works well to motivate you.
However, your intent is to develop a clear purpose in your life. Intention is to support you expend energy to achieve your dreams. Therefore, you should fully understand what the purpose of your life.
There are several steps that you can set a clear goal of what you want in life has to offer Zavaro Lynn, author of the book The Game of You, as reported from Shine.
1. Allow yourself to dream about what you really want. Then, visualize in your mind's eye. Focus on yourself with your eyes closed 5 to 10 minutes, then felt a deep peace of the shadow relationship of your dreams.
2. Write down what you want today. As if it happened, or is already happening. This is the strongest way to determine what movement will you take to realize your wishes.
3. In the first line of a piece of paper write the word 'I', then complete the writing type of person you want with you at this time in detail. Be active and clear with your description.
Example: I enjoyed a love affair with a man who is kind, gentle, and loving. Or, I love spending time with a guy who likes to have fun, and also likes to cook
together at home.
4. Continue the sentence until you feel everything you want in a relationship you have written. Do your best on the core issues. Let it flow but not too
choose. Remember that you want to find a true partner, not a conceptual idea that may not exist.
5. Affirm the positive. Make sure every sentence you uttered a positive tone. Hold yourself to use negative descriptions like the word 'no'. As we explain in the negative, unconsciously we have allowed negative thoughts permeate the soul, and this will berdampk at the time you make a decision.
Example: "I do not want to fight with people I love." You can replace it with the phrase, "I communicate with my loved ones with maturity, openness, and pleasure."
6. Know what you can not tolerate. Use past experience to explain what you do not want to face in subsequent relationships.
For example, if you do not want to have a relationship with a man away from you or the guy who already have children, enter the scene to something that you can not tolerate. Always
using a positive point of view as someone who was in the same area, or someone who is still single.
7. Realize your worth. Know what the value of life's most important to you? Make sure they are included in your list, and set it as a value must also be trusted man
your dream. A successful relationship must be in agreement or at least respect the value of each.
8. Check your list. Recheck your writing to see if you forget something important to you. Make sure the paper is a picture of a bigger dream than the trapped
in details that are too obvious.
For example, if you make posts like, "He must be income more than Rp 1 billion per year," should use the phrase, "He can make my life and family in good circumstances."
9. Read your writing every day with a loud voice for a week to incorporate them into your subconscious. Place the text in an easily visible place so you
easy to remember what is in it.
10. Always open to welcome your new relationship to get surprises and not exactly the same as what you write. However, if you meet someone not in accordance with
values that you want, do not dare to compromise.
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